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Letter to ex boyfriend that you still love


Everyone has their own way of dealing with a breakup and their ex.

For some, it’s easy to slip back into the friendship.

For others it’s cut all contact completely.

What do you do when you have important things you want and need to say?

That’s where the letter to ex boyfriend that you still love comes in.

 

It’s not always easy to organize a face to face meet up with an ex after a breakup.

And talking on the phone can be problematic.

Having the possibility of negative feelings take over during the course of conversation can be disastrous.

Texts are limited by the number of characters they can have and who will read bulk sent texts?

The letter is therefore the perfect compromise.

Between the distance you need and the means for saying something important clearly, without interruption.

 

Write the letter to ex boyfriend that you still love in your own time

A Letter to ex boyfriend that you still love can be written over the course of a few hours or even weeks.

It isn’t invasive and it’s a way for you to say what it is you want to say.

While maintaining control of your emotions so your thoughts and words can be clear.

Letter to ex boyfriend that you still love, when handwritten is more subtle and respectful.

And in this day and age it is novel.

When was the last time you got post that wasn’t bills or electronic?

 

Letter to ex boyfriend that you still love isn’t a love letter

Maybe it is that you have regrets or issues you want to clarify.

Once your ex notices that you aren’t reaching out to argue, debate or get back together,

They can relax and put their guard down.

The reason it doesn’t have to be a love letter is your ex is more likely to be open to and reply to an accountability letter over a love letter.

The pressure it off  and this makes your ex feel that speaking with you can be a casual and easy-going experience.

When your ex receives the letter, they’ll assume its purpose is to get them back into your life.

When it’s not, he will be caught off guard and curious to see how you’re doing.

The beauty of this is, they will be able to see all the wonderful ways you’ve changed since the breakup.

If their guard is down, they’ll be more receptive, rather than defensive, to you reaching out this way.

They can peer into this new and evolved person that you’ve become since you’ve spoken last.

 

Write the Letter to ex boyfriend that you still love in the right frame of mind

When you sit down to write a closure letter to ex boyfriend that you still love, it’s important that you’re in the right state of mind.

For example, writing the letter when you’re under the influence of alcohol especially one pertaining to your love life is not a good idea.

Instead, find a time when you’re level-headed and can think about your past relationship in a rational and objective way.

And are able to truly focus your thoughts without any interruptions or distractions.

 

When crafting a letter to ex boyfriend that you still love, the focus of the letter should be on yourself.

In other words, rather than pointing out all the ways that his behavior was unacceptable.

Blaming him for things that transpired and criticizing his actions isn’t a great approach.

He may just bin it.

The better approach is to look internally.

 

Use the letter to ex boyfriend that you still love as an opportunity to explain

For example, you should write down how you felt when certain things occurred.

Do your best to explain how you were disappointed, sad or upset as a result of various situations.

You can also use this time to explain your own actions.

Why you reacted in such a way when things transpired between the two of you.

If your approach is one of self-explanation rather than accusations.

Your message is more likely to be read.

 

Use the letter to ex boyfriend that you still love to find closure

You can also use this letter as an opportunity to apologize.

Or if you know that you wronged him and this has been preventing you from finding the closure.

This is the perfect way to say you’re sorry.

 

Keep in mind that you don’t actually have to send this letter to ex boyfriend that you still love.

In fact, it’s not uncommon that the simple act of writing out your thoughts and feelings.

Can be powerful enough to help you find the closure you may be seeking.

You have the option to read this letter to a close friend or family member who will listen to you.

Support you, provide guidance as well as keep it’s secrets.

 

Dear  Ex

Hope this finds you in great spirit and well.

I had a lot to say in person but that day never came.

The day we parted ways wasn’t the day to talk because you were not in the right frame of mind to listen

and nor was I in the right frame of mind to speak.

Now that the dust has settled and we are on different paths.

I hope at least this letter deserves to be given a patient reading and perhaps a little understanding.

I know and accept the fact that our relationship is over.

I’m not trying to win you back with this letter.

And I’m not trying to change your mind.

Since I understand and respect your decision, even though it hurt like hell.

But, I just have some things that I want to say about what I regret.

The type of regrets that has been keeping me up at night.

These aren’t about when you didn’t trusting me .

These regrets were about how I acted and who I was in our relationship.

Regrets that I could have and should have done more.

Though I know both of us could have done more.

I hope that telling you this now won’t change anything between us.

But something happened, soon after we started dating.

I fell head over heels in love with you, and it scared me, a lot.

I didn’t want to be “that girl” who claimed to be in love after only a couple of months.

Nor did I want to make a mistake of telling you I was in love.

It didn’t help when you accidentally told me you loved me that one night in Fabio’s restaurant.

It just scared me, and it made clam up about my feelings.

Though I wanted to say it.

To this day, I never regret falling in love with you and developing feelings for you.

I do regret not being open and honest with you.

Especially when you were so open with me.

There is a thin line between being emotional and romantic and being a fool.  

You were the most wonderful person that came into my life in a long time.

And being with you was the best thing that happened to me.

I guess that on that evening I was a fool.

And that is one of my greatest regrets.

I guess I let my fears got the better of me.

I should have been brave and open with you.

Everything about who you are amazes me more than you realize.

Though I wasn’t looking for it when we first started dating I found love.

I soon realized that something changed in me I felt we could be good together.

Not just a year or two, but for as long as I felt as strongly as I do towards you.

And for as long as you feel the same towards me.

I knew from the very beginning that we were two very different people.

Who are on two different paths in life.

That we said it was way too soon to tell if we were meant to be together for longer.

And that is something else I was not honest about.

When I said that I’ll probably move away to some foreign country to use my degree for more than just an accessory on the wall.

I didn’t really mean it.

It was a defense reaction not wanting to tell you that I thought we could be together.

You don’t know your future yet either.

So to hear you make your argument for me to stay

Was a huge shock for me and it brought up previous fears.

Since the future for either of us was not clear.

It made me wonder if you were looking for something more serious than I had thought.

To me though, as long as we were together, I was the happiest I could be.

Little did I realize it put us on the path to separation.

And now it feels like a large sized part of me is missing, and it still hurts.

You’re still the only guy I want to be with.

And the mere thought of going on a date with anyone else yet just makes me sick.

Which is what I meant when I said that I didn’t think I could go out with anyone else yet.

Even though guys were asking.

I know that given a little more time and the right guy will get me through.

And I’ll be able to date again.

And I’m hoping that by writing this letter it will help speed up that process.

But, this is what I meant when I said I had regrets.

You were not a regret at all, nor was anything we did together.

In fact, I still think of our relationship as a huge positive and with great fondness.

I know it wasn’t nearly as great as it could have and should have been.

There were a lot of things that were missing from it one was my honesty and openness.

It was no wonder you said you couldn’t trust me and you were right.

I regret though, not letting you know just how much you meant to me.

And not telling you I love you and still do.

I just feel that I led you on to believe that you didn’t mean nearly as much to me as you did.

And that by doing so, I hurt our relationship and what could have been.

Part of me wonders if our relationship would have been different if I didn’t give in to my own fear of rejection.

And just let you know just how strong my feelings were, but I guess we’ll never know.

Like I said, this isn’t my way of trying to get you back or change your mind.

I wanted to say so many thing so many times to you, about my feelings.

But each time I over thought it, and it just didn’t come out.

I guess that is why I decided to write this letter to wipe the slate clean in a way.

Thinking and just wondering what “could have been” hurts a lot and i guess I will always have that.

Especially as the fault is my own and I am taking ownership of it here and now.

I know and accept that you don’t feel the same towards me.

As I feel towards you though, though it does hurt.

If it’s not there, it’s not there, and there’s nothing I can do about that.

I just hope and pray that you will put yourself on the right track and find true happiness.

If you have read this far, then I can only say thanks a million for giving this a patient reading.

A simple acknowledgement that you have read this would suffice and help me find peace with myself and move on.

I can’t thank you enough for being a part of some of the most wonderful moments in my life.

So just remember how much you mean to me and never forget it.

Love always

Your EX

 

Antoine Peytavin, fondateur du site jerecuperemonex.com

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