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5 Italian tips to have sex with my ex
The Latin lovers are world renowned and have so much to share.
Not least the tips to have sex with my ex.
In this day and age there is no stigma attached to it.
Guys want it just as Girls do too.
So without further ado let us get to it as they say.
The Italian tips to have sex with my ex.
Giacomo Casanova, Rudolph Valentino, Isabella Rossellini, Sophia Loren.
Latin lovers have a reputation that is world renowned.
Names like Casanova and Valentino are synonymous with the Latin Lothario type.
Made world famous by Hollywood in films and pictures that few would not recognize.
They are the epitome of the sex symbol another one of Hollywood’s inventions.
Casanova is reported to have used a hot chocolate drink to help him seduce the ladies.
I am sure it would still have some amount of pull or popularity today.
With ladies who venerate it as if it were sex in a cup or a wrapper.
If only Casanova left us the complete recipe…
Some ex sex statistics
Almost half of single women have regularly had sex with an ex boyfriend.
While looking for a new lover,a new survey has revealed.
The poll of 1,000 men and women.
Found that the majority of girls who resort to sex with the ex
do so because they ‘miss physical intimacy.
A further 31 percent admitted it was because they hoped to reignite a relationship
with a former flame.
47 percent of single women regularly have sex with their ex partners.
The reasons can be many and varied.
‘Missing intimacy’ is the most common reason.
Followed by wanting to restart a relationship.
Flirting on social media and having too much to drink was cited as a major trigger.
An additional 43 percent of women also admitted to regularly sleeping with an ex,
while on the lookout for a new partner.
An even higher 47 percent of men confessed to doing the same.
With females reporting that the best sex they ever had was with their ex partner.
Is it any wonder that we do it ?
So beyond having to cook or buy them dinner or to even seduce them to have sex with my ex.
What are the tips or guides to have sex with my ex.
1 Be prepared both mentally and physically for sex with my ex
Well first of all you need to be prepared.
and I am not only talking about birth control or protection.
Though that is essential and should go without saying.
I mean mentally you did date and then it ended.
And no matter what you say
I am going to hazard a guess and say that it hurt like hell when it ended.
Can you handle going through that again ?
Because that is the worst case scenario.
That you enter thinking it is just sex it will be great.
And you leave thinking something else like are we dating now or what ?
Or feelings can come back and that is a recipe for disaster.
Sleeping with the ex again can just lead to more heartache.
Because there is no chance of the relationship working out in the long term.
And you will be just left to reflect on what you have lost or can not have.
Which could be worse as many of our readers already know.
2 Be open and honest to have sex with my ex
This isn’t the time to play mind games or to get into a power struggle.
What you need to do is be open and honest with them.
Tell them what you want from them.
If you want to have sex, tell them,
and be honest with your expectations and your boundaries.
This way, you both know where the line is and not to cross it.
3 Stay light in conversation, touch and on your feet
Talk about the weather or your opposing political views or your endless job.
Talk about a movie you’ve seen or an album you have recently heard.
Or the fact that your sports team just can’t seem to stay healthy this season.
This isn’t a time to reminisce on what was.
To inquire as to what could have been,
and dust off chapter and verse of a book you both shut long ago.
The time to wax philosophically on the ins and outs
and the failings of your past romance is done.
You should never discuss the past or reminisce about the good old days,
Because that only brings up the feelings from the past
And those kind of reminders can be a put off rather than a turn on.
There is supposed to be nothing going on between you two except sex.
So do not go over thinking it or saying too much.
Back when you two dated, sex was probably an expression of your love
and/or appreciation for each other.
That was back then.
Now at this point, sex is an expression of well lust and to satisfy the libido.
Don’t go confusing the kissing or cuddling for emotional attachment
or anything like that.
You will just be setting yourself up for heartache reminders.
You have already been down that road you probably have the scars to prove it.
Have sex with the ex if you want and are truly prepared for it.
But don’t view it as an invitation to start texting or calling all of the time.
And don’t expect for your relationship to necessarily merge back into dating, either.
You don’t need to stay over, you have your own bed at home.
This isn’t a sleepover for two, this is strictly sex and that’s it.
If you have to sleepover, then leave early in the morning.
Avoid any romantic breakfasts or cuddling conversations
because those bring nothing but heartache and really it is not what you came for.
You should limit your escapades to once a week.
Any more than that and you risk getting more involved than you want to.
You might want to limit the length of time you spend in this kind of arrangement.
As it can impede finding a real relationship
and moving on with your life in a serious manner.
For some, having “sex with my ex” was one of the best decisions for them emotionally.
Sometimes it does much more for them than they expect like getting closure.
Obviously, it is an ego boost, lots of fun and can let you recharge and regroup.
It can almost be like a time out because it wasn’t exactly moving backward,
but by the same token it definitely wasn’t moving forward either.
But what some people don’t expect is the complete sense of relief felt the next day.
If your relationship ended badly and there was so much resentment and hurt feelings.
They may take the view that relationship was nothing but a total mistake.
But having a one night can remind them
of how great they could be and how much fun you did have.
Giving some amount of closure to the whole thing.
It can be a nice commemoration of the time that you shared.
There is also a certain amount of fun and naughtiness
to having sex with my ex.
It is like the sex you had when you were dating.
There is the flirting, a feeling of seduction added to the feeling of we shouldn’t.
The thrilling idea of having a fling or something akin to an affair.
An attitude of, ‘we’re not married, we’re just having great sex’ prevails
and you feel both can feel sexy and free.
The decision of consenting adults can be very liberating in that way.
4 Drinks as a means to have sex with my ex
It could be called social lubrication for the way it affects some people.
It does loosen inhibitions and provide some dutch courage there is no doubt about that.
Seeing as many people report that they have hooked up with their ex partners after a few drinks.
It is suggested you try this avenue if you think they are sitting on the fence.
In regards to a decision whether or not to indulge in a little hanky panky.
But be warned there is a fine line here that needs to be drawn.
It can start a fire but it can also put it out or down.
No one wants to try deal with a case of brewers droop
so be warned and know your limits.
The same goes for the ladies it can be the difference between saying playfully pull my hair
and pull my hair back while I hurl .
But being as it is the main reason that exes hook up.
It is a top tip if you want to have sex with my ex.
Though it has its drawbacks so be warned.
Messing it up could put you from speed dial to denial very quickly.
So use this one in moderation like the beverage adverts suggest in small print.
Think also of the after effects too, hangovers can be cruel.
5 Be flirty on Social media.
With an ex partner, a lot of the hard work has already been done.
You have done all the wine’ing dining and sixty nining back when you were dating.
You have most likely seen them at their worst.
I am not talking about the break up point in time.
Though that may have been their worst or lowest moment.
Beyond that, the barriers along the way to sex are already overcome.
The compatibility issues, the self consciousness and the bit of occasional embarrassment.
Have all been negotiated and gotten over to some respect.
You will be familiar with their body and them with yours.
So you should know what really turns her on and she you.
Or you should have no real qualms about asking for something that gets you off.
There is far less confusion involved and you can focus solely on the job at hand.
There is not the restrained fear of being thought kinky
if you ask for something new or that you have never tried.
You can be a little freer about your wants and desires in the bedroom with them.
This means you can relax a little more with them and can lead to better sex all round.
This can be used to your advantage on social media.
This is another of the top tips for you to have “sex with my ex”.
As statistics rank this as one of the top reasons exes hook up after a break up.
Being flirty on social media is free, easy and has very few drawbacks.
Except for getting caught if you are in a relationship or they are.
You may still be in contact through social media.
Unless you got blocked or unfriended.
Then it is unlikely that any amount of flirting will get you into their bed.
And you can most likely message them privately.
I mean you do not want to broadcast your intentions.
Or your semi on looking to get off status.
But it can be an innocuous and a convenient method,
to let your ex know you are interested in hooking up.
They can see and read your messages at their leisure
and reply if they are interested.
If the ex does not reply or is just not into it.
It is not quite a blow and it doesn’t feel as awful as it could have been if it was done in person.
Remember keep it light, fun and on point.
Do not remind them of your negative aspects that will get you no where.
Be sure you both understand clearly it is only a hook up.
And you both are on the same page in that regards.
It is not the route to a reunion, though some have thought it could be.
And if you get any sort of ideas or notions about that you should give it up.
If by the same token think the ex might be thinking something along those lines.
It is time to quit it as it will only lead to someone getting hurt again.
Antoine Peytavin, fondateur du site jerecuperemonex.com